Saturday, July 20, 2013

Why I Love Avila Beach - A Descriptive Essay


 Personal descriptive essay.

Why I Love Avila Beach

Of the many places I have visited in my life only a handful have built a lasting impression on me.  Perhaps it is the special characteristics of such places that make them unique, or perhaps it is the memories made and emotions that are felt that evoke a greater meaning than other destinations are able to.  In my experience I have never visited a place that has become more special or meaningful to me than Avila Beach in California.

            I was in the third grade when we lived in Pismo Beach thirty minutes away from Avila Beach. My parents’ busy schedules made a trip into Avila a treat.  Just the drive was special. The narrow two lane road that leads into the small beach city rises and curves its way through lush mountains, offering the opportunity for a fleeting glimpse of a deer or rabbit. I always knew when we were half way there, because the air becomes thick with the smell of sulfur from a hot spring a few paces off the road. As a child, I welcomed the scent as an indicator of what was to come just beyond the mountains.

            By day, Avila is alive with foot traffic that crowds the boardwalk-style street just off the sand.  Small shops are flooded with swimwear, surfing gear, trinkets, and souvenirs. Street vendors selling hot dogs and shaved ice cones line the sidewalk leading up to the pier. The beach is usually just as busy with families picnicking, children building sand castles, and sun bathers soaking the rays that shine bright, seemingly immune to the overcast that hangs above the surrounding beaches. There is never a shortage of fun to be had, but it is Avila at night that I am particularly fond of. 

            On summer evenings when the sun finally sets and the air starts to cool, the beach crowd starts clearing out, and the street shops close. The scents emanating from the many restaurants give way to the salty fragrance of the sea, which becomes more apparent when a breeze drifts through. On a lucky night everything is quiet except for the crashing sound of the waves. Nights such as these are my favorite.

I recall being young, maybe ten years old, and my parents pulling up and parking near the old metal swing set that sits in the sand looking out into the water.  It was a quiet, cool night. The wind blew through my hair as I sailed through the sky on a creaking swing. The water was black and lit only by a soft glow of moon light that illuminated the crest of the waves as they rolled over themselves before drawing back in. I felt an unbelievable peace and freedom that has never been duplicated by any other place in my life.

As an adult, I picture that moment on the swing when stress overwhelms me.  Every time my family takes a trip to the coast I drive them through the same mountains, past the sulfuric spring, and straight down to the swing sets. My husband has come to appreciate Avila for the fish and chips at a small beachfront restaurant.  My children love splashing through the water and making a game of jumping over every slit between the boards on the pier. I have never met anyone who has been to Avila and not enjoyed the time spent there. While my love for this beach stems from a special memory and the feelings it evokes, I believe Avila Beach can appeal to everyone in some way.

I never turn down the chance to drive into Avila. I love the excitement and the way the community is alive with locals and tourist during the day. I long for the solitude and fulfillment the evening air and rumbling waves offer. Many beaches are alike, but for me, none can compare to Avila.

Friday, July 12, 2013

A Lady and a Rottweiler - A Personal Experience Essay

We were required to write an essay about a personal experience.  Not sure about the exact purpose other than that...


A Lady and a Rottweiler

            It takes quite a bit to sway my mind set on something; however, I have recently learned that in one day everything that a person thinks he or she knows about something can change. Sometimes this can be a positive experience. In my case it was a devastating realization of something I had been so sure of. I never would have expected an animal to teach me this lesson. Though I thought our dog was a safe family pet, I was proven wrong one ordinary Tuesday night that I will never forget.

            My husband, Scott, grew up having Rottweiler dogs as pets. He favored their strong and protective nature and swore by their kindness. Naturally, when we decided to get a dog he urged me to consider this breed for our family.  Having small children and no experience with large dogs, I was concerned that a Rottweiler would be dangerous. Despite my reservations, my husband’s wishes won out and we adopted a Rottweiler puppy. We named her Siris. For two years she was part of our family. She played well with my children and was kind and gentle to them. My judgmental nature was slowly overcome and eventually I whole heartedly trusted her, so much so that she became a sense of security for me. Nothing and no one got past Siris undetected.

Being an outside dog, Siris was the master of her backyard.  Every few months we would walk outside and find her sitting next to a dead possum.  We were grateful; after all, no one wants possums living in their trees. In hindsight we should have considered the similarities between an uninvited possum, and Lady, our much cherished feline family member. It never crossed my mind to worry about this since Lady stayed inside the house and Siris stayed outside.  Besides occasionally spying each other through the window, they never came in contact. That is until the day that Lady’s curiosity overcame her.

 It was early summer that evening and closing time for my daycare. All the families had picked up their children, save my sister Brandi and my good friend Paige, whom lingered a bit longer while their kids played with my boys. I was mid-conversation when my sister flew off the couch, shrieking about the dog. “She’s got the cat! Scott, quick, she’s got Lady!” Her words were fast and panicked and her finger pointed at the window she had been staring out.

My heart stopped. I felt instant adrenaline rush through my body as I ran to the back door, tripping over everything in my path.  Scott beat me there; I pushed past him only to see the most horrifying sight I have ever seen. Siris’ wide jaws were firmly locked around Lady’s torso as she thrashed her head right to left, whiplashing my cat back and forth like a rag doll.

I was hit with instant nausea and uncontrollable tears. Scott rushed to the bloody scene while I hurried to the privacy of a closed door. I stood alone trying to collect myself and process what I saw.  Aware of the young and curious ears that were just a room away, I quickly collected myself as best as I could and walked out. I stuttered through a few words of comfort to the children in my care and began my way back to the patio doors, opening them just as my husband came through with Lady in his arms.  I held my breath.  My chest ached with the tears I fought to hold back. Reaching out, Scott gently laid the small motionless body into arms. To my surprise, Lady turned her head and looked up at me with wide frantic eyes. She was alive!

Hope instantly surged through me, then just as quickly vanished as I surveyed her more closely. Her mouth was wide open and she was panting for air. Her stomach bled, but from where exactly I was unsure as I was too scared to move her enough to inspect. She appeared to be in shock, and recalling the way her frail body was shaken, I suspected she was paralyzed. I held her tight and still, spoke a few loving goodbye words into her fur, and looked up to my husband for help.  “She’s suffering,” I said, “do not make her suffer. Take her out of misery. She’s dying.”

I was shocked to see the tiny barely visible tear in the corner of Scott’s right eye. “I can’t,” he replied. His voice was low and shaken. I stood and stared at him, not knowing what I should do or say. I had completely forgotten about everyone else around us until I heard Paige’s voice break in with her objection, insisting that we take the cat to an emergency animal hospital. Common sense found its way back to me and I hurried to the car, leaving my sister behind to care for my children.

Sitting in the veterinarian’s waiting room I recalled the entire scene again in my head.  I made a mental list of what I expected to hear from the doctor.  Broken back, punctured lungs, and uncontrollable bleeding. I already knew that I would be asked for permission to euthanize her. To my surprise, the vet came back to us with a smile. “Nothing is broken,” he started, his tone hinting to his surprise as well, “but I have some concerns.” The doctor explained that she was in relatively good condition in consideration of the circumstances, and that despite a limp tail that may require amputation, there were no signs of any permanent injuries. Lady was lucky; she had been attacked by an 85 pound Rottweiler, and survived.

Neither my husband nor I spoke during the drive home that night. We both knew what the other was thinking and not saying. We knew what became of so many possums. Now we saw her maul our cat. My mind raced with questions of what was possible, what would happen next, and if we could trust her with our children. Not knowing the answers revolted me. I no longer had assurance that she was safe and I feared what she was capable of. It was Scott who broke our silence as we pulled into the drive way. “Siris has to go.” Broken hearted, I agreed.  The next morning we said our goodbyes to Siris and turned her over to a Rottweiler rescue shelter. 

Everyone knows there are no certainties in life.  Anything can change in seconds.  Every time I look at Lady, whom miraculously made a full recovery, I am reminded how fortunate my family is that we saw Siris’ predatory behavior unleash on a cat and not a small child. I will never forget what I saw, and hence, I will never be able to completely trust a dog again. Especially not a Rottweiler.